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So, first time face to face with someone you like, someone you admire for some time and someone you find interesting, refreshing etc. What do you say, what do you do? Do you have to think about everyting you say and do? Control is good, but you have to let it loose sometimes. Too loose? Set it straight again! OK, there are no rules, but I think we have to relax and let the things flow (and glow, OK) sometimes. But those „sometimes” have to be carefully quantified.
OK, so who are you talking about?
Do you think the name of the person is important? It’s a general situation, I think. Are there any handbooks about that?
no, there isn’t. the first time I met my favourite actor I hardly even said anything to him. thank god I got another chance to talk to him. but there really isn’t any how-to manual. I think you just have to be natural, be yourself. but it’s hard sometimes. when you admire someone, you want them to have a good opinion of you. and if you don’t think highly of you, you tend to act out. so, just be natural. ;)
these moments you describe are the few ones that make one loose the daily routine for a while. It doesnt’t matter if you reacted well or not, if you had the right answers or not, if you were too stiff or too loose…I envy you for just experiencing these emotions…